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Candace Plattor, M.A.Registered Clinical Counsellor
Candace Plattor, M.A.
Registered Clinical Counsellor
If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.

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…And the Stabbings Continue… What’s Really Going On?

I am an alumnus of the University of Calgary, having graduated from that school in 1973. Just a few days ago, I wrote about a school stabbing in Pennsylvania. Now, five young U of C students are dead—all stabbed to death, allegedly by a ‘friend’ of theirs.Of course, the irony is blatant—the alleged killer, another young student at the U of C, is the son of a 33-year veteran policeman in Calgary. I can’t help but wonder—could this boy possibly have been trying to send his father some kind of … [Read more...] about …And the Stabbings Continue… What’s Really Going On?

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Calgary stabbings, Matthew De Groode, senseless violence, violence, violence on TV, violent video games

More High School Violence: How Fed-Up Are You?

I don’t personally know Alex Hribal, the 16-year-old boy who recently decided to go on a stabbing spree in a Pennsylvania high school.Those who do know him give the same profile of many of these other kids who have committed similar atrociously violent acts—saying that he is aloof, quiet, and has never caused trouble before.But with premeditation, this boy walked into his school and began stabbing and slashing other students, as well as anyone else who happened to be at the wrong place at the … [Read more...] about More High School Violence: How Fed-Up Are You?

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Alex Hribal, school stabbings, senseless violence, violence, violence in TV, violent video games

The Portland Hotel Society: If It Looks Like a Duck and Quacks Like a Duck…

Maybe—just maybe—it’s actually a duck? I just couldn’t let this story go by without writing about it again. The long and short of it is that the higher (no pun intended) authorities of the Portland Hotel Society (PHS) and several of their own Board of Directors are stepping down, as ordered by the BC Government, in order to avoid receivership. So what does this mean? Well, according to the government, in the 2012-2013 fiscal year, PHS received a cool $21 million in funding. Of that money, we … [Read more...] about The Portland Hotel Society: If It Looks Like a Duck and Quacks Like a Duck…

Filed Under: Choice point to stop addiction, Helping vs. Enabling, Recovery from addiction, Staying clean and sober takes work Tagged With: Addiction, Candace Plattor, Downtown Eastside, Harm reduction, Helping vs. Enabling, Portland Hotel Society, programs to help those addicted

Rob Ford and Jimmy Kimmel: A Shameful Travesty

I have written about Rob Ford before, discussing with compassion how unhealthy I believe he is in a variety of ways—what it must be like to be his wife and children, how enabled he’s surely been to have developed into this kind of person who appears to be totally incapable of seeing himself clearly.Although I admit I was curious about what would transpire when he and Jimmy Kimmel met face-to-face in front of the hot lights and unforgiving cameras of TV land, I can’t say that I was exactly … [Read more...] about Rob Ford and Jimmy Kimmel: A Shameful Travesty

Filed Under: Healthy self-care, Helping vs. Enabling, Intentions Tagged With: Jimmy Kimmel, Jimmy Kimmel Live, Rob Ford, Rob Ford talk show, Toronto, Toronto Mayor

The Sad Story of Alex Radita: How Many More Children Have to Die at Their Parents’ Hands?

Sometimes I really don’t understand this crazy world we live in—or the rules we implement that make it even crazier.I am simply appalled that a 15-year-old boy who was starved, abused, and deprived of medical attention—all at the hands of his parents—was allowed to live with them in the first place.Some of you may have heard Alex’s very sad tale, as it’s had a little (way too little, in my opinion) coverage on the news lately. The bulk of this horrible story took place in Calgary, but it … [Read more...] about The Sad Story of Alex Radita: How Many More Children Have to Die at Their Parents’ Hands?

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Alex Radita, needless death of a child

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