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Candace Plattor, M.A.Registered Clinical Counsellor
Candace Plattor, M.A.
Registered Clinical Counsellor
If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.

Helping vs. Enabling

Faith and Fear Cannot Co-Exist

Discover more about your own spirituality, and start living more from that place of peace. … [Read more...] about Faith and Fear Cannot Co-Exist

Filed Under: Self-Respect, Spiritual health Tagged With: Addiction in the family, Addiction recovery, Healthy self-care, Helping vs. Enabling, loving an addict

Why Self-Respect Matters When You Love Someone with an Addiction

When someone you love is struggling with addiction, it's easy to believe that the only way to help is to give more of yourself. More time. More patience. More understanding. More chances. At first, these actions often come from a place of love and hope. You want to believe that this time will be different, that your support will make the difference, or that if you can just say or do the right thing, they'll finally choose recovery. But as addiction continues, many loved ones discover something … [Read more...] about Why Self-Respect Matters When You Love Someone with an Addiction

Filed Under: Self-Respect Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction in the family, Helping vs. Enabling, self-respect, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones

Recovery Month: Honouring the Journey of Families and Loved Ones

Every September, Recovery Month offers us a poignant reminder of the challenges, triumphs, and ongoing journeys of individuals and families navigating the path of addiction recovery. It’s a time to reflect on the impact of substance use disorders, celebrate the strength of those who choose recovery, and acknowledge the vital role of families and communities in this process. My own story, from a harrowing 15-year battle with opioid addiction to over 38 years of sobriety and a rewarding career as … [Read more...] about Recovery Month: Honouring the Journey of Families and Loved Ones

Filed Under: Addiction recovery Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction in the family, Addiction recovery, Helping vs. Enabling, Recovery Month

World Drug Day 2025: Why Family Support Is Critical in Addiction Recovery

June 26, 2025 marks World Drug Day, also known as the International Day Against Drug Abuse and Illicit Trafficking. This global observance serves as a crucial reminder of the continued fight against substance abuse—but even more importantly, it highlights the often-overlooked role of families in the healing and recovery journey. At Love With Boundaries, we see firsthand how addiction affects not just the person using drugs or alcohol—but everyone around them. Addiction not only impacts the … [Read more...] about World Drug Day 2025: Why Family Support Is Critical in Addiction Recovery

Filed Under: Addiction recovery Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction recovery, Helping vs. Enabling, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones

Loving an Addict Without Losing Yourself

How to Set Boundaries & Reclaim Your Life Loving someone struggling with addiction is one of the hardest battles you can face. You want to help. You want to save them. It’s understandable. But at what cost to yourself? If you’re feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, and unsure of how to move forward, you’re not alone. Many people who love an addict struggle with: Constantly worrying about their choices and reactions Feeling guilty for setting boundaries Taking responsibility for their … [Read more...] about Loving an Addict Without Losing Yourself

Filed Under: Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction and Codependency, Addiction recovery, Helping vs. Enabling, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones

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