Whether we are the addicts or their loved ones, wanting to feel better about ourselves happens only when we face ourselves honestly and do the inner work it takes to change what we can. … [Read more...] about Unfortunately, It Doesn’t Usually Work!
Addiction
How to Make a Good Decision and Develop Your Self-Respect
Addiction will rob the addict you love of a better life. You can help guide them to look at their problems more honestly, and be there for them when they bravely decide to choose that. You can love them enough to encourage them when they make decisions based on reality and honesty. … [Read more...] about How to Make a Good Decision and Develop Your Self-Respect
Go Deeper
Being willing to do whatever it takes will bring you the recovery you want. This is true for addicts and for those who love them. Develop the courage to go deeper. … [Read more...] about Go Deeper
Loving an Addict, Loving Yourself Wins Gold — And Why This Recognition Means So Much
I have some wonderful news to share with you. Loving an Addict, Loving Yourself: The Top 10 Survival Tips for Loving Someone with an Addiction has been awarded the Gold Medal in the Non-Fiction — Social Issues category of the 2026 Readers' Favorite International Book Award Contest. This comes shortly after the book received a 5-star professional review from Readers' Favorite, which described it as "a timely self-help guide and a supremely honest and helpful resource for those who love someone in … [Read more...] about Loving an Addict, Loving Yourself Wins Gold — And Why This Recognition Means So Much
How to Be the Greatest Role Model Ever
As the loved one of an addict, you are in a position of trust – even when it doesn’t seem to be that way. You can decide how you want to show up in the world, and it’s very possible the addict you love will make the decision to follow you. … [Read more...] about How to Be the Greatest Role Model Ever
