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Candace Plattor, M.A.Registered Clinical Counsellor
Candace Plattor, M.A.
Registered Clinical Counsellor
If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.

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Sir Elton: A Man of Courageous Moxie

This morning I listened to Elton John’s interview with Matt Lauer on the Today Show. This amazingly brave man spoke candidly about how he “squandered” (his word) many years of his life by giving in to his enormous appetite for alcohol, drugs, and food. He also openly discussed the great shame he carried around for a very long time, after watching many of his friends die all around him—from addiction as well as from AIDS—while he spent his time running away from his feelings by using a variety of … [Read more...] about Sir Elton: A Man of Courageous Moxie

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Prescription Addiction–in BABIES??

Lately, we have been seeing articles and videos in the news about the astounding increase of babies who are born addicted to prescription drugs. In each of them, there seems to be this underlying question: “How can this be happening?” In my mind, however, the answer is simple—it’s happening because doctors are continuing to prescribe very addictive medications as if they were candy. And more and more, unfortunately, their patients appear to be pregnant women. That was then… In 1973, I was … [Read more...] about Prescription Addiction–in BABIES??

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What I Learned on My Spring Stay-cation

“Ahhhh…,” I remember thinking, “a week off—a whole week off!” As a gift to myself on my last birthday, I decided to take some well-earned time off. Because I was craving a low-key week that wasn’t totally stuffed with things to see and do, I decided to stay home and not travel—to instead enjoy my beautiful, beloved Vancouver. I really like stay-cations. I don’t have to pack or be in crowded airports or bus terminals. I can sleep in my own bed and not spend an exorbitant amount of money to … [Read more...] about What I Learned on My Spring Stay-cation

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If Nothing Ever Changed, There Would Be No Butterflies: The Power of Transformation

I love butterflies.For me, aside from their incredible beauty, they signify the extraordinary growth that all living things – including us humans – are able to achieve when we make that choice.Think about it: a butterfly starts out as a cumbersome caterpillar, crawling slowly along the ground, being stepped on, squashed down, dissected in biology classes, and then discarded when the abuse is over. It is easy to discount the lowly caterpillar.But caterpillars have an uncanny sense of intuition – … [Read more...] about If Nothing Ever Changed, There Would Be No Butterflies: The Power of Transformation

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Whitney Houston: Thank You for Your Help

Just like much of the world, I am shocked and saddened as I hear the news about Whitney Houston – dead at the age of 48. I’ve always loved Whitney’s music – her voice was so amazing and until recent years, her onstage presence could make us forget all about the demons she battled privately. Not only did she fight an ongoing battle with mind-altering substance addiction, she also was in the spotlight several times as a result of domestic violence with her husband Bobby Brown. Despite her many … [Read more...] about Whitney Houston: Thank You for Your Help

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