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Candace Plattor, M.A.Registered Clinical Counsellor
Candace Plattor, M.A.
Registered Clinical Counsellor
If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.

Helping vs. Enabling

January 24, 2014 by Candace Plattor

Justin Bieber: The Latest Casualty of ‘Enabling’

Most of us knew it was only a matter of time.Not only were we hearing story after story about Justin’s “antics”—a media description that only served to minimize the severity of his actions—but those very actions were becoming more and more bizarre. Before today’s arrest for driving under the influence and resisting arrest, he was pitching raw eggs at his neighbor’s house causing thousands of dollars worth of damage—not to mention a sizable stash of illegal drugs that were found in his home.Do we … [Read more...] about Justin Bieber: The Latest Casualty of ‘Enabling’

Filed Under: Helping vs. Enabling, Loving an addict, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones Tagged With: Helping vs. Enabling, Justin Bieber, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones

October 2, 2013 by Candace Plattor

Sometimes Love Looks like “No”: When to Set and Maintain Healthy Boundaries

Is it possible to have a healthy relationship with someone who is in active addiction? What needs to happen for that to occur? If you are in that situation, you have probably wondered about this many times. THE QUESTION OF THE DAY Several weeks ago I was interviewed on Talk Recovery radio, a new program on Vancouver’s Co-Op Radio station, dealing with addiction and recovery issues. I was honored to be chosen as their very first guest, and I had a great time talking with the interviewers about … [Read more...] about Sometimes Love Looks like “No”: When to Set and Maintain Healthy Boundaries

Filed Under: Helping vs. Enabling, Loved ones of addicts, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones, Where to turn when loving an addict Tagged With: Addiction in the family, Helping vs. Enabling, if a loved one is struggling with addiction, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones, Where to turn when loving an addict

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