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Candace Plattor, M.A.Registered Clinical Counsellor
Candace Plattor, M.A.
Registered Clinical Counsellor
If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.

if a loved one is struggling with addiction

March 22, 2022 by Candace Plattor

Family Addiction Counselling:
3 Sure-Fire Tips to Find the Right Therapist for You and Your Family

We all know how rampant addiction has become – we see it all around us and hear about it in our news nearly every day. Mostly, our society focuses on mind-altering addiction, consisting of drugs and alcohol. There are also many other kinds of mood-altering or process addictions, which are more behavioural in nature such as gambling, smoking, overspending, eating disorders, and sex addiction of various types. Millions of families all over the world are grappling with some sort of addiction these … [Read more...] about Family Addiction Counselling:
3 Sure-Fire Tips to Find the Right Therapist for You and Your Family

Filed Under: Addiction in the Family Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction and Codependency, Addiction in the family, Addiction recovery, asking for help when loving an addict, Healthy self-care, Helping vs. Enabling, if a loved one is struggling with addiction, loving an addict, Recovery from addiction

November 24, 2017 by Candace Plattor

Virtual Counselling in Addiction Recovery:
It Works!

As we are all aware, the Holiday Season is coming fast upon us and, for many people, this time of year has shifted from a season of peace and joy to a period of misery and confusion. This year, unfortunately, addiction will be an unwanted guest for more families than you might imagine. If you feel like you need someone to talk to who can guide you and your family through these often treacherous waters—but you’re also aware that accessing in-person counselling could be difficult for you—help is … [Read more...] about Virtual Counselling in Addiction Recovery:
It Works!

Filed Under: Addiction, Addiction in the Family, Help for Families of Addicts Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction in the family, Addiction recovery, asking for help when loving an addict, if a loved one is struggling with addiction, loving an addict

December 15, 2016 by Candace Plattor

How to Enjoy the Holidays When You or Your Loved One Has an Addiction

This post was originally published on December 12, 2014 Another year has gone by and “The Holidays” are fast approaching—although if you’re anything like me, you’re still wondering where September went! The time has come when we are once again seeing commercials on TV and in magazines about how wonderful the Christmas season is, that it is better to give than to receive, and how warm and loving families are, especially at this time of year. But the reality is that, for many of people, this is … [Read more...] about How to Enjoy the Holidays When You or Your Loved One Has an Addiction

Filed Under: Addiction, Loved ones of addicts Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction and Codependency, Addiction in the family, if a loved one is struggling with addiction, loving an addict, loving an addict at Christmas, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones

April 25, 2016 by Candace Plattor

If It Doesn’t Open… It’s Not Your Door

A while ago, I was going through my newsfeed on Facebook, when I came across this proclamation: If it doesn’t open, it’s not your door. I thought it was one of the most brilliant pieces of wisdom I’d ever heard—so of course I immediately stole it and shared it on my own Facebook page too. And I’ve been using it—with clients, with friends, and with myself—ever since. How many times have we all tried to manipulate situations and relationships to make them work out the way we wanted? How often … [Read more...] about If It Doesn’t Open… It’s Not Your Door

Filed Under: Helping vs. Enabling, Loving an addict Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction in the family, Helping vs. Enabling, if a loved one is struggling with addiction, loving an addict

December 1, 2015 by Candace Plattor

Surviving the Holidays When Loving an Addict

We all know that the Holiday Season is upon us. Depending on where we live, many of us began being pummelled with Christmas commercials on TV even before Halloween had come and gone. As we move into December, we are seeing the familiar media ads depicting gloriously happy families, all enjoying being together—opening gifts by the lavishly decorated tree and having sumptuous meals at their festive dinner table—smiles all around, nice and cozy. It all looks quite wonderful, doesn’t it?But the … [Read more...] about Surviving the Holidays When Loving an Addict

Filed Under: Loving an addict Tagged With: Addiction in the family, Christmas chaos, Helping vs. Enabling, if a loved one is struggling with addiction, loving an addict, loving an addict at Christmas, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones

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