Because the loved ones of addicts often believe they are to blame for this addiction, they have a tendency to stay silent in shame. But they are not to blame, because addicts make their own choices about how to live their lives. When loved ones start to speak their truth about this, and start to have healthy boundaries, they begin to learn how to HELP their addict rather than continue to enable—and everyone can then start their journey to wellness. … [Read more...] about Our Secrets Keep Us Sick
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Forging Connections to Address Substance Use, Families and Recovery
In Canada, National Addictions Awareness Week (NAAW) serves as a pivotal time for reflection, education, and action on the challenges and solutions related to alcohol and other drug use. This year, under the theme "Forging Connections," NAAW emphasizes the importance of building relationships and understanding within the substance use health field. The diversity of experiences, ideas, and opinions among individuals, families, and communities highlights the complexity of finding unified … [Read more...] about Forging Connections to Address Substance Use, Families and Recovery
What Do I Need Right Now?
How self-aware emotionally do you allow yourself to be? When you know what you’re feeling, you’ll be more able to give yourself what you need. Ask yourself “Am I hungry / angry / lonely / tired?” and become willing to give yourself a meal or a snack; talk to someone about your anger (or sadness, boredom, fear); arrange a playdate with a friend; or enjoy an exquisite nap. Becoming self-aware of how you’re feeling—and then doing something self-caring about that—can help you feel refreshed and … [Read more...] about What Do I Need Right Now?
The Transformative Power of Recovery Month: Understanding, Helping, and Celebrating
Every September, Recovery Month offers us a poignant reminder of the challenges, triumphs, and ongoing journey of individuals and families navigating the path of addiction recovery. It's a time to reflect on the impact of substance use disorders, celebrate the strength of those who have chosen the path of recovery, and acknowledge the vital support of families and communities in this journey. My personal story, from a harrowing 15-year battle with opioid addiction to over 37 years of sobriety … [Read more...] about The Transformative Power of Recovery Month: Understanding, Helping, and Celebrating
What Do We REALLY Have Control Over?
Although it’s hard for most people to realize they really have no control over other people, we keep trying anyway! The only person any of us have control over is ourselves—over our choices and decisions. Once we truly accept this, life gets much easier. … [Read more...] about What Do We REALLY Have Control Over?