Every September, Recovery Month offers us a poignant reminder of the challenges, triumphs, and ongoing journeys of individuals and families navigating the path of addiction recovery. It’s a time to reflect on the impact of substance use disorders, celebrate the strength of those who choose recovery, and acknowledge the vital role of families and communities in this process. My own story, from a harrowing 15-year battle with opioid addiction to over 38 years of sobriety and a rewarding career as … [Read more...] about Recovery Month: Honouring the Journey of Families and Loved Ones
Addiction
Relapse Is Not Normal or Expected
“Open the door and let me in!” “I just need 20 bucks. I’ll pay you back, I promise!” “I’ll start fresh again next week!” As the loved one of a person struggling with addiction, it is sometimes difficult to know what to say or do in moments like these. We hear from our clients—loved ones of addicts—that they feel torn, pulled between wanting to help and not wanting to enable. They often say they don’t know the words to use in these conversations. They walk the line between not wanting to “set … [Read more...] about Relapse Is Not Normal or Expected
World Drug Day 2025: Why Family Support Is Critical in Addiction Recovery
June 26, 2025 marks World Drug Day, also known as the International Day Against Drug Abuse and Illicit Trafficking. This global observance serves as a crucial reminder of the continued fight against substance abuse—but even more importantly, it highlights the often-overlooked role of families in the healing and recovery journey. At Love With Boundaries, we see firsthand how addiction affects not just the person using drugs or alcohol—but everyone around them. Addiction not only impacts the … [Read more...] about World Drug Day 2025: Why Family Support Is Critical in Addiction Recovery
How do we deal with the shame that comes from living with an addict?
Andrea asks: How do we deal with the shame that comes from living with an addict and feeling like their addiction is now also a reflection of who we are? It is so painful to be misunderstood and shamed when it's somebody else's behaviour that has caused our pain in the first place. Hi Andrea, That’s a fantastic question, and so many people feel what this person is asking about. This question is about feeling shame around what the addict in your life is doing. I believe all loved ones … [Read more...] about How do we deal with the shame that comes from living with an addict?
Loving an Addict Without Losing Yourself
How to Set Boundaries & Reclaim Your Life Loving someone struggling with addiction is one of the hardest battles you can face. You want to help. You want to save them. It’s understandable. But at what cost to yourself? If you’re feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, and unsure of how to move forward, you’re not alone. Many people who love an addict struggle with: Constantly worrying about their choices and reactions Feeling guilty for setting boundaries Taking responsibility for their … [Read more...] about Loving an Addict Without Losing Yourself
