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Candace Plattor, M.A.Registered Clinical Counsellor
Candace Plattor, M.A.
Registered Clinical Counsellor
If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.

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Mental Self-Care – Your Mind will Thank You!

Whether you play word puzzles, bridge, or bingo, give your mind fun exercises to keep it sharp! … [Read more...] about Mental Self-Care – Your Mind will Thank You!

Filed Under: Self-care Tagged With: Addiction in the family, Healthy self-care, self-care

What Holistic Self-Care Can Do for You

If you want to be free to be your authentic self, learn how to take care of yourself holistically. … [Read more...] about What Holistic Self-Care Can Do for You

Filed Under: Healthy self-care, Self-care Tagged With: Addiction in the family, Healthy self-care, self-care

The Changing Face of Self-Care

For those of us who grew up in dysfunctional families, practicing holistic self-care and putting our own needs first was fleeting at best. That’s because, as children, so much of our time had to be spent on staying “safe” – and this often meant that we had to focus on making others feel good. As adults, we can shift that today. When we become aware of needing to caretake someone else, we can change direction and begin to focus on ourselves so that WE can feel good. … [Read more...] about The Changing Face of Self-Care

Filed Under: Self-care Tagged With: Addiction and Codependency, Healthy self-care, loving an addict, self-care, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones

Holistic Self-Care Is Vital to a Healthy Recovery

The importance of balanced self-care cannot be overstated - both for you and for the addict you love.  When we take care of ourselves, we develop our self-respect, which in turn lowers our need for choosing addictive behaviours. Whether it’s you deciding to stop any enabling you might be doing, or your addict making the decision to go into recovery, a sense of self-care and self-respect will be the springboard for these healthy choices. … [Read more...] about Holistic Self-Care Is Vital to a Healthy Recovery

Filed Under: Healthy self-care Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction in the family, Addiction recovery, self-care, self-respect

Another Valentine’s Day: Codependent Nightmare or Ultimate Self-Care?

I don’t know about you, but 2021 went by quickly for me – and here we are again, almost at Valentine’s Day. In my past, as a brutally self-trashing codependent woman, this was always one of my least favourite days – because I was either in a dysfunctional relationship or I was alone and lonely, wishing desperately that I was partnered with someone – anyone. Either way, the approach of Valentine’s Day didn’t bode well for me. … [Read more...] about Another Valentine’s Day: Codependent Nightmare or Ultimate Self-Care?

Filed Under: Addiction and Codependency Tagged With: Addiction and Codependency, Addiction recovery, Healthy self-care, self-care, Valentine's Day

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