Sheila asks: My husband and I have very different approaches to helping our son with his alcoholism, and it's causing arguments and problems in our relationship. How do we come together and agree on a plan? Hi Sheila, I see this happen so many times. We rarely see a family come to us where everybody is in agreement. We usually see families where one parent is enabling an adult child—meaning that they're giving them money, doing things for them, driving them places because the child had a DUI … [Read more...] about The Importance of Loved Ones of Addicts Being United
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People Using Addictive Behaviours Are Making That Choice
No matter how you are behaving with someone using addictions, your behaviours do not cause that person to use. That is a decision that the addicted person makes. You did not cause somebody else’s addiction and you don’t have to feel guilty about that. The person using the addiction is the one making that choice—period. … [Read more...] about People Using Addictive Behaviours Are Making That Choice
Recognizing Signs of addiction in Employees
A.H. asks: How can employers better recognize signs of addiction in their employees? Hi A.H., Because addiction is so rampant, the first thing that employers need to do is come out of whatever denial they may be in. Instead of brushing off when an employee is acting a little strange, consider that it could be addiction. In our world today, either everyone is affected by addiction – either their own or someone else’s – or they know someone who is. Denial is no longer an outlet that we can use … [Read more...] about Recognizing Signs of addiction in Employees
What Do Practicing Addicts REALLY Feel?
Even though practicing addicts already feel badly about themselves, it is still important for them to feel the consequences of their behaviour. This is what helps them make the decision that living life as an addict is NOT what they want. When we take these consequences away from them, we are enabling them and the addiction continues. … [Read more...] about What Do Practicing Addicts REALLY Feel?
Encouraging Family Participation in the Journey Toward Recovery: A Reflection on World Drug Day
Today, June 26th, is designated as World Drug Day, also known as the International Day against Drug Abuse and Illicit Trafficking. It's a moment for us to reflect on the profound impact of addiction not only on individuals but on their families and loved ones as well. This day serves as a global observance to highlight the critical fight against drug abuse and illicit trafficking, reminding us of the collective action required to address these challenges. However, beyond the global call to … [Read more...] about Encouraging Family Participation in the Journey Toward Recovery: A Reflection on World Drug Day
