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Candace Plattor, M.A.Registered Clinical Counsellor
Candace Plattor, M.A.
Registered Clinical Counsellor
If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.

Addiction

December 12, 2017 by Candace Plattor

How to Enjoy the Holidays When You or 
Your Loved One Has an Addiction

This post was originally published in December 2014. Another year has gone by and “The Holidays” are fast approaching—although if you’re anything like me, you’re still wondering where September went! The time has come when we are once again seeing commercials on TV and in magazines about how wonderful the Christmas season is, that it is better to give than to receive, and how warm and loving families are, especially at this time of year. But the reality is that, for many of people, this is … [Read more...] about How to Enjoy the Holidays When You or 
Your Loved One Has an Addiction

Filed Under: Addiction, Family Addiction, Loved ones of addicts Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction in the family, Christmas chaos, loving an addict, loving an addict at Christmas, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones

November 24, 2017 by Candace Plattor

Virtual Counselling in Addiction Recovery:
It Works!

As we are all aware, the Holiday Season is coming fast upon us and, for many people, this time of year has shifted from a season of peace and joy to a period of misery and confusion. This year, unfortunately, addiction will be an unwanted guest for more families than you might imagine. If you feel like you need someone to talk to who can guide you and your family through these often treacherous waters—but you’re also aware that accessing in-person counselling could be difficult for you—help is … [Read more...] about Virtual Counselling in Addiction Recovery:
It Works!

Filed Under: Addiction, Addiction in the Family, Help for Families of Addicts Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction in the family, Addiction recovery, asking for help when loving an addict, if a loved one is struggling with addiction, loving an addict

March 20, 2017 by Candace Plattor

Narcissism and Addiction: What We Need to Know

Narcissus: Self-Adoration “Narcissism” is a big word for a simple concept. To explain what narcissism actually is, we need to look at Greek mythology. Once upon a time, a young man named Narcissus, who was blessed with many beautiful physical attributes, was sitting alone by a pond. As he looked down into the still water, he saw his own reflection shining back at him. Mesmerized by his own magnificence—which he himself considered to be nothing short of stunning—he gazed lovingly into the … [Read more...] about Narcissism and Addiction: What We Need to Know

Filed Under: Addiction Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction and Codependency, Addiction in the family, narcissism

December 15, 2016 by Candace Plattor

How to Enjoy the Holidays When You or Your Loved One Has an Addiction

This post was originally published on December 12, 2014 Another year has gone by and “The Holidays” are fast approaching—although if you’re anything like me, you’re still wondering where September went! The time has come when we are once again seeing commercials on TV and in magazines about how wonderful the Christmas season is, that it is better to give than to receive, and how warm and loving families are, especially at this time of year. But the reality is that, for many of people, this is … [Read more...] about How to Enjoy the Holidays When You or Your Loved One Has an Addiction

Filed Under: Addiction, Loved ones of addicts Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction and Codependency, Addiction in the family, if a loved one is struggling with addiction, loving an addict, loving an addict at Christmas, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones

August 19, 2015 by Candace Plattor

Fentanyl – What We Can Do About It

Yesterday someone I know asked me why I wasn’t writing anything on my blog about fentanyl—which has become such a horrific problem lately. Although I had thought a few times about perhaps addressing it, I would stop myself with this thought:“What could I say that hasn’t already been covered in the news? What could I possibly add that would be of any value?”I’m glad my friend challenged me about this, because today I see that I’ve made a mistake by thinking that way. So I’m writing about it … [Read more...] about Fentanyl – What We Can Do About It

Filed Under: Addiction, Loving an addict Tagged With: Addiction, drugs laced with fentanyl, fentanyl, if a loved one is struggling with addiction, loving an addict, talk to your kids about fentanyl

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