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Candace Plattor, M.A.Registered Clinical Counsellor
Candace Plattor, M.A.
Registered Clinical Counsellor
If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.

Candace Plattor

April 9, 2025 by Candace Plattor

Loving an Addict Without Losing Yourself

How to Set Boundaries & Reclaim Your Life Loving someone struggling with addiction is one of the hardest battles you can face. You want to help. You want to save them. It’s understandable. But at what cost to yourself? If you’re feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, and unsure of how to move forward, you’re not alone. Many people who love an addict struggle with: Constantly worrying about their choices and reactions Feeling guilty for setting boundaries Taking responsibility for their … [Read more...] about Loving an Addict Without Losing Yourself

Filed Under: Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction and Codependency, Addiction recovery, Helping vs. Enabling, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones

March 25, 2025 by Candace Plattor

The 16 Steps: An Alternative to 12-Step Programs

Reflected in the 12-Step philosophy is a belief that people who aren’t aligned with the Steps don’t have the willingness to go to any lengths to recover. Often, they feel that they have been labelled resistant or ungrateful. While programs such as Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous help millions of people achieve and maintain recovery all over the world, I question whether these programs are appropriate for all people. Often, people have difficulty with what they refer to as the … [Read more...] about The 16 Steps: An Alternative to 12-Step Programs

Filed Under: Addiction recovery Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction in the family, Addiction recovery, asking for help when loving an addict

March 18, 2025 by Candace Plattor

Reborn in Recovery:
A New Life Beyond Addiction

by Christine Zitscher Spring is almost upon us and I for one could not be happier about that! As the dark, gloomy days of winter begin to subside, I am filled with new energy and optimism. New life begins to appear with the tiny buds that blossom on the trees, and the baby starlings I hear out my bedroom window every morning provide me with a sense of hope about the future. After all, spring is the season of rebirth, and it’s a reminder to me that there is always a chance to start again.  I … [Read more...] about Reborn in Recovery:
A New Life Beyond Addiction

Filed Under: Addiction recovery Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction in the family, Addiction recovery, asking for help when loving an addict, Recovery from addiction

March 12, 2025 by Candace Plattor

The “Magic Question” Can Tell You a Lot

… [Read more...] about The “Magic Question” Can Tell You a Lot

Filed Under: Addiction Tagged With: Addiction in the family, Addiction recovery, asking for help when loving an addict

February 19, 2025 by Candace Plattor

Everyone is Affected,
and Everyone Needs to Heal

The addict in your family isn’t the only person that needs to heal and recover. Anyone in a family dealing with addiction is affected, and everyone needs to heal. It’s good if you can learn how to be a healthy role model for this in your family. … [Read more...] about Everyone is Affected,
and Everyone Needs to Heal

Filed Under: Addiction recovery Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction in the family, Helping vs. Enabling

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