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Candace Plattor, M.A.Registered Clinical Counsellor
Candace Plattor, M.A.
Registered Clinical Counsellor
If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.

June 15, 2023 by Candace Plattor

Ask Yourself Some Important Questions

loving an addict

When we focus too much on the addict in our lives, we can lose ourselves in the process. Asking ourselves some deeper questions and answering them as honestly as possible can help us find ourselves again.

Filed Under: Addiction and Codependency Tagged With: Addiction and Codependency, Addiction in the family, Healthy self-care, Helping vs. Enabling, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones

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  1. Jonna Christensen says

    June 16, 2023 at 9:56 pm

    Your article is spot on.
    I look forward to read your newsletters.
    Thank you
    Jonna (Denmark)

    • Candace Plattor says

      June 18, 2023 at 9:11 am

      Hi Jonna – thank you for writing, all the way from Denmark!

      Thank you for your kind words – and please remember that if you need help, we offer a FREE 30-minute zoom consultation at Love With Boundaries. All you have to do is fill out our Questionnaire and we’ll connect with you as soon as we receive it.

      https://lovewithboundaries.com/intake-questionnaire/

      I appreciate you being in touch – and more newsletters are coming!

      Candace

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