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Candace Plattor, M.A.Registered Clinical Counsellor
Candace Plattor, M.A.
Registered Clinical Counsellor
If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.

asking for help when loving an addict

March 22, 2022 by Candace Plattor

Family Addiction Counselling:
3 Sure-Fire Tips to Find the Right Therapist for You and Your Family

We all know how rampant addiction has become – we see it all around us and hear about it in our news nearly every day. Mostly, our society focuses on mind-altering addiction, consisting of drugs and alcohol. There are also many other kinds of mood-altering or process addictions, which are more behavioural in nature such as gambling, smoking, overspending, eating disorders, and sex addiction of various types. Millions of families all over the world are grappling with some sort of addiction these … [Read more...] about Family Addiction Counselling:
3 Sure-Fire Tips to Find the Right Therapist for You and Your Family

Filed Under: Addiction in the Family Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction and Codependency, Addiction in the family, Addiction recovery, asking for help when loving an addict, Healthy self-care, Helping vs. Enabling, if a loved one is struggling with addiction, loving an addict, Recovery from addiction

February 16, 2022 by Candace Plattor

Riding that Roller Coaster of Chaos

Do you feel like life with your addict is full of chaos when they are in active addiction? You’re not alone! … [Read more...] about Riding that Roller Coaster of Chaos

Filed Under: Addiction and Codependency Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction and Codependency, Addiction in the family, Addiction recovery, asking for help when loving an addict, loving an addict

April 4, 2018 by Candace Plattor

How to Help the Addict You Love to Become Healthy: The Family’s Role in Addiction Recovery

Addiction is so rampant now in our society. We all know that more and more people are dying from the ravages of this horrific situation, especially due to drugs like fentanyl that take the lives of drug users in a split second. We simply don’t have the luxury of treading lightly around addiction anymore. We each need to do all we can to shift this and get the results that all families of addicts are looking for. It IS possible. STOP ENABLING AND MAKE THE SHIFT So how do we make that shift? … [Read more...] about How to Help the Addict You Love to Become Healthy: The Family’s Role in Addiction Recovery

Filed Under: Addiction in the Family Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction and Codependency, Addiction in the family, Addiction recovery, asking for help when loving an addict, Family addiction, Helping vs. Enabling, loving an addict, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones

November 24, 2017 by Candace Plattor

Virtual Counselling in Addiction Recovery:
It Works!

As we are all aware, the Holiday Season is coming fast upon us and, for many people, this time of year has shifted from a season of peace and joy to a period of misery and confusion. This year, unfortunately, addiction will be an unwanted guest for more families than you might imagine. If you feel like you need someone to talk to who can guide you and your family through these often treacherous waters—but you’re also aware that accessing in-person counselling could be difficult for you—help is … [Read more...] about Virtual Counselling in Addiction Recovery:
It Works!

Filed Under: Addiction, Addiction in the Family, Help for Families of Addicts Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction in the family, Addiction recovery, asking for help when loving an addict, if a loved one is struggling with addiction, loving an addict

May 29, 2017 by Candace Plattor

Life Begins at the End of Your Comfort Zone: Recovery from Addictive Behaviors

This post was originally published in June of 2013. Life begins at the end of your comfort zone—so true. I love this saying, and wish I could take credit for thinking it up. In my humble opinion, whoever came up with it is a genius—and when I saw it on a fridge magnet many years ago, I bought several of them to give as gifts to people I recognized as being entrenched in their comfort zones. (Sometimes it really does take one to know one.) Having given most of them away, I am now down to just … [Read more...] about Life Begins at the End of Your Comfort Zone: Recovery from Addictive Behaviors

Filed Under: Recovery from addiction Tagged With: Addiction, Addiction and Codependency, asking for help when loving an addict, Helping vs. Enabling, loving an addict, Recovery from addiction, Setting boundaries with addicted loved ones

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